What Is Your Animal Personality?

The WOLF: You're independent, strong-willed & often misunderstood. Very few people truly understand you. You're extremely attached to the significant few you love and respect. You often find yourself as a loner, but you eagerly seek out the comfort of your packmates.

Wolf
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'What Is The Best Type Of Sex For You?'

You prefer Passionate sex!


You enjoy passionate sex. You're the kind of person that has tons of fun in the sack, and you can really get into it. Not necessarily rough and lusty, passionate sex is the kind that satisfies both your lovin' and horny needs.

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The Lighter Sight of BDSM

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Symptoms Of BDSM...

You have a playroom full of toys - but you have no children

You spend much time on your knees - but you are not religious

You go to dog training class - but you have no dog

You talk about vanilla - but you do not mean ice cream

You are called a slut - but you do not take offence

You have an account at a hardware store - but you hate DIY

You have hooks in the ceiling - but no hanging baskets

You buy clothes pegs in bulk - but you use the tumble dryer

You have a tack room - but you cannot ride a horse

You train & humiliate recruits - but you are not in the military

You are called Mistress - but you are not having an affair

What A Dominant Should Not Say When 

Sub Is Bound, Gagged, Blindfolded & 

Suspended From The Ceiling...

1. This is my first time.

2. I have never liked you.

3. Oops!

4. I am not sure which end of this to insert.

5. Come in, the door's open!

6. Where would you hide a body so no one would find it?

7. You remind me of my ex.

8. I should really take my medication.

9. I wish this came with instructions.

10. Have you seen a key anywhere?

11. Darling, you're home early!

12. Say 'Cheese'!

13. I take cash or credit card.

14. (complete silence)

What Not To Do With Your Dominant...

Ask for your safe word to be 'Bastard'.

Roll your eyes when your Dominant is detailing your punishment.

Ask to go to the toilet during Japanese rope bondage.

Hide the toys that you hate.

Make obscene gestures when your hands are tied behind your back.

Ask your Dominant, 'What did your last slave die of?'

Explain that you can't do foot worship because you have a sensitive nose.

Sing 'Happy Birthday' and blow the candles out during wax play.

Ask Mistress if she is suffering from PMT.

Sigh or tut when your Dominant miss-hits.

Ask your Dominant "Is that a speech impediment?" when receiving verbal humiliation.

Decorate your Dominant's leathers with flowers and ribbons.

Close your eyes and snore when receiving a beating.

Provide a sports commentary during a scene.

Put a whoopee cushion on Mistress' queening chair.

Give a haircut to your Dominant's favourite flogger.

Threaten to call the police.

Fold your arms and say 'No!' when given an order.

Stick an Alka-Seltzer in your mouth during a scene.

Giggle.

Say that you can't count the strokes because your hands are tied behind your back & you need to use your fingers.

Superglue the nipple clamps shut.

The Identity Test

Mistress, you're an Extraversion Low!

The test you've just taken is a short version of the Five Factor model of identity. Among psychology experts, this approach has become broadly accepted for its accuracy and consistency. The five dimensions in this model give a complete description of your personality traits: Openness to Experience, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness and Negative Emotionality. Read below to see your scores and understand what they mean.

Openness To Experience

Your high score in the Openness category means that you probably have a strong creative streak. Your broad intellectual curiosity and your interest in the various arts set you apart. Some people may consider you somewhat of a dreamer, and your taste for variety often means moving quickly on to the next experience. This tendency makes you appear a bit flighty and inconsistent. But these elements of your personality simply reflect a character full of new ideas and charged with emotions.

Conscientiousness

Your medium score in the Conscientiousness category means that you have achieved a solid balance in your outlook towards responsibility. You are probably somewhat organized, with a little room for improvement. Your priorities probably reflect a mix of work and play. Thoughtfulness characterizes your thinking style, so you give gravity to important decisions without making a big deal out of minor issues. You are probably serious about achieving success, but do not feel completely driven by this motivation. All in all, you've got a very healthy perspective on work and duty.

Extraversion

Your low score in the Extraversion category indicates that your have an introverted social identity. Given the choice, you prefer keeping to yourself. Your independent nature is characterized by a reserved and steady demeanor. You keep to the background, and probably maintain a relatively quiet and inactive social life. Your social style earns you the reputation as somewhat aloof, because you don't care much for company. Your emotional state is quite reserved, and you are seldom known for qualities of exuberance.

Agreeableness

The Agreeableness category refers to your social disposition. Your high score indicates your tendency to forego your own desires for the sake of others - sometimes to a fault. You are probably known as a kind and modest person who is willing to overlook your own needs for the interest of the group. You believe in creating harmony among people, to the point where you can sometimes act a bit dependent. With your straightforward style of communication and your sentimental nature, this isn't hard for you. You tend to see the world by the light you cast - as honest and genuine.

Negative Emotionality

Negative Emotionality refers to your emotional reactivity. Your high score means that you're quite sensitive, and highly reactive to outside stimuli. For example, you probably worry a bit more than most, and may feel more anger than most. In addition, you may be more prone to stress and embarrassment as a result of your sensitivity. It should be noted that high sensitivity often means a lowered feeling of overall satisfaction with life. But at the same time, this sentiment is often the basis for making important changes in the world. People who know you probably see you as a bit thin-skinned, and susceptible to mood swings.

The Identity Test

All I Want...

All I Want

Is to Love You

Forever

All I want

Is to love You

For the rest of my life…

To wake up every morning

With You by my side,

Knowing that

No matter what happens,

I’ll be able

Wrap myself

In Your loving arms.

All I want

Is to share everything with You…

To talk to You about our ideas,

Our dreams,

The little everyday things

That make us laugh,

And the not-so-little things

That we can’t help worrying about.

All I want

Is to give You my love…

As a place

You can always come to

For acceptance

Or the simple comfort

That silence brings,

When things left unspoken

Can still be understood.

All I want

Is to grow old with You…

To watch our life unfold,

Our dreams, one by one,

Come true.

All I want

Is to love You

Forever!!!

Collar (BDSM)

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In a BDSM context, a collar is a device of any material placed around the neck of the submissive partner.
The most common material is leather, and many people use actual dog collars with a buckle. Other materials include rubber, PVC, and metal, typically stainless steel. Collars may be decorated in various ways, and often feature buckles, straps and hooks, padlocks and other attachments. The standard form is a black leather band around the neck, though there are many variations including elegant jewelry necklaces. D-rings are often added to allow the attachment of a leash.


Collars are often used in role-playing games involving humiliation because they have connotations of control and pet-like status, especially when worn with a leash.


Collars have varying degrees of significance for people in the BDSM community. A person wearing a collar may wish by doing so to make it known that she or he is submissive. Wearing a collar may similarly be a signal to others that the submissive is "owned" by or is in a relationship with a dominant. It may also be a potently tangible symbol of the relationship itself or of the ownership the submissive is held in. A lockable collar may further symbolize a transfer of power from the submissive to the dominant holding the key.
A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared. Some people conduct formal "collaring ceremonies" which are regarded as effectively solemnizing their relationship in the same way as a marriage ceremony.


Few submissives wear their collars all the time; as a fashion accessory they are becoming more common, but not sufficiently so that they would go unnoticed, particularly if worn by men. Many choose to wear their collars only when in private with their partners, or with other members of the BDSM community.


As BDSM practices are moving from the old guard leather community into middle class society the role of the collar has changed also. Increasingly couples who also practice 24/7 Domination and submission relationships adopt collars that can be mistaken as ordinary chokers or jewelry necklaces and can be worn discreetly in public. Further evolution of this migration has had groups which actively practice BDSM in a relationship but where roles are switched or not as clear as in a traditional D/s relationship. The practice of joint collaring has emerged, where both wear a collar to show their devotion to the other one and to their lifestyle. Generally the collars look alike and/or are inscribed with vows to each other.


In the old guard leather community there were three stages of collaring. These are still informally followed by some in the BDSM community. The "collar of consideration" was the first and roughly analogous to a pre-engagement ring. This collar could be removed at any time by the submissive with no ill will and the relationship would be ended. The "training collar" is roughly analogous to an engagement ring and indicates a deepening relationship in which the submissive is being prepared by the dominant to serve to the standards the dominant wishes. Again, the submissive may ask to be released but the break is considered more serious and painful for both parties. Finally, the "slave collar" is analogous to a wedding band and at this point the submissive is considered a formal slave and owned by the dominant. In the old guard leather community this was considered permanent with no chance to end unless the submissive was released by the dominant for some exceptional reason. Simple failure of service was not adequate since that showed a failure on the part of the dominant as well as the slave. As with engagement and wedding rings there are traditions with collars in regard to type of materials and colors that are appropriate to each type, usually becoming more elaborate.
House collars are also used in clubs, homes and in organizations that provide social spaces to protect submissives. House collars show that the submissive is under the guidance of the house and is not to be approached. This is often used with inexperienced submissives who are not ready to make their own choices yet and need time to learn.


"Velcro collar" is an increasingly common term, used derisively. The old guard leather community was very protocol oriented and stressed serious lifestyle involvement because of safety issues. More recently, however, email, Internet chat rooms and instant messaging services allowed the curious to participate in casual (and often anonymous) D/s relationships online. The Velcro reference indicates the tendency for online dominants and submissives to have new online collaring ceremonies frequently and without regard for existing relationships which end as easily as not logging in.